Thinking How to Get Your Ex Back? Using Reverse Psychology Is A Great
by Emma Audley
If you think that being unpredictable
is a great way to attract attention here is a golden opportunity to work on it as you try to get your ex
back. Many use the term reverse
psychology to describe this strategy – you do exactly the opposite of
what is expected of you. In other words, you are being unpredictable.
How does using reverse
psychology work to get your ex back? To understand
this concept, you have to appreciate that in a close relationship, the couple usually know a lot about each
other. They can predict each others’ responses; their reflex actions and even know how the other person is going
to react at a given situation, etc.
Therefore, after a break-up your
partner is almost sure about what you might be thinking and what your next action is going to be. Reverse
psychology is doing just the opposite of what your ex is expecting you
to do, thereby increasing intrigue, interest and most importantly, you get back in the thought process of your
ex once again, this time more forcefully, than ever before.
What is the first activity plan when
you use reverse psychology to get your ex back? You work contrary to
expectations – you stop all modes of contact with your ex. No phone calls, no messages and no ‘I am sorry’
flowers or cards. This unexpected silence triggers unending curiosity in the mind of your ex. Are you trying to
get your ex back or are you already thinking of moving on? Reverse
psychology is working!
Once you are through with the first
activity plan of using reverse psychology, you can push the accelerator a bit harder to get
your ex back when you embark upon the second phase. Post break up, you are supposed to be depressed and look
lost and morose. In stead, you appear happy, confident and socialize as you used to! Who would ever believe that
you are trying to get your ex
back?In stead of looking like a
loser, you carry your self-esteem on your shoulders. This again is going to put your ex on a spin, as to what
could be playing in your mind.
While playing reverse psychology may
work wonders to get your ex back, it works very well on several aspects of your life too. For
instance, you keep depression at bay; you suddenly have a lot of time to catch up with old buddies, family, etc;
you actually can squeeze in time to visit the gym, and so on. Basically, while your true intentions are to get
your ex back, you are also taking some time off to take care of your
mind and body.
Reverse psychology also does wonderful
things to the relationship. First of all, this action helps your ex realize your worth. You are no longer the
person who can be taken for granted as you appear so unpredictable! You are no longer the dog that wags the tail
seeking extra favors from the master. Though this may sound rude, but the fact of the matter is that breakups
usually bring out the worst in most of us and efforts to get your ex back can always be
misconstrued as acts of desperation, etc. Reverse psychology puts
things in the right perspective.
Is playing reverse
psychology tough? Yes, if your activities are unplanned and done in an inconsistent manner.
You can not appear desperate to meet your ex one day, and cease to keep in touch from the next day. Be that as
it may, deploying reverse psychology also calls for some strategic
For example, when you apply the no
contact formula as part of reverse psychology to get your ex back, play your
cards carefully, so that your absence does not put ideas in your ex’s head that you are looking for freedom from
the relationship. At the end of the day, you are trying to get your ex
back for love, not for playing
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